![]() ![]() ![]() It’s like buying a lottery ticket every Wednesday and Saturday and waiting in week after week for your numbers to come up. If you’ve been living your life in limbo waiting around, you’re breaking a fundamental personal boundary that will erode at your self-esteem. Here’s the thing: Waiting around for someone to make up their mind about you, to dignify you with contact, a relationship, decency, a change of self or whatever, devalues you. “I’m waiting for you to spontaneously combust into being available/commitment ready/a better person/to leave your spouse or partner”.Īnd in particular “I know you think you can do better, but when you find out that you can’t, I’m here waiting for you”. ![]() “I’ll be right here waiting for you if you ever decide you want me” “I’m waiting for you to make up your mind about me” It’s very irritating and yet I realise that like many people, in the past I’ve been trapped in a holding pattern waiting around for that slot to open up so I can take up what I feel is my rightful spot in the relationship I envision.Įvery day I read comments, emails and Facebook postings that are code for: A few months ago, I spent 45 very long minutes circling over Heathrow airport waiting for a slot to open up so that we could land. ![]()
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